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Saturday, May 13, 2006

The Party: A Rant

Have I mentioned that I'm embroiled (love that word; it so evokes how I feel at the moment!) in organizing eldest son's 21st? If I haven't that could only be because I've had so little time for blogging lately. What with organizing this party which, I might add, I fought tooth and nail to avoid. Wouldn't you rather the money, honey? Can I tempt you with a round-the-world airline ticket instead? How about a car?

I knew I would get lumbered with all the work, as mothers do, because the menfolk just think to order the kegs and invite the friends (a LOT of friends) and the rest will just, you know, take care of itself. Who cares what colour the napkins are? Who needs tablecloths? Wine--just order some random bottles of red and white. Well, I care. And I will NOT order random anything for any party, let alone a 21st.

Sigh. I knew this would be a lot of work but I didn't know how time-consuming or distracting the details would be. And I have a book deadline, of course, because someone has to pay for this out-of-control horrendously expensive party!

So. Are 21st parties a big deal in America, too? Did you have one and if so, was it worth all the trouble? (All tips, advice, and offers of hard liquor to help me cope, welcome.)

posted by Bronwyn Jameson @ 8:14 AM
Comments:
I would have to say in America a 21st b-day is more about going out and your friends getting you drunk. Since here 21 is when you can legally drink. The big question is will you get carded or can you pass for being old enough. For my 21st I went to dinner with my parents then out with friends who tend to buy you lots of drinks.
GOOD LUCK with the party I know from experience how helpful men are with those things.
How about paying his friends to take him out. Your headache would be gone.
Em
posted by Blogger Emmy : 3:25 PM
 
They are big in America only because then your legal to buy alcohol and go out to bars,but not so much in parties like Emmy said. Usually friends take you out and its announced at the bars its your 21st then you get a free drink from the bar and sometimes others at the bar. Where I live you go to a lot of bars and get lots of free drinks.
Hope your party turns out great and the b-day boy appeciates all you put into it Bron.
posted by Blogger Dena : 1:00 AM
 
Thanks Emmy and Dena. The legal age for drinking is 18 here, so the 18th is often a big party as well...or the occasion for going out and bar-hopping with friends. We didn't do the 18th party and I think that's one reason our son wants this one so badly. The other reason: he loves parties!
posted by Blogger Bronwyn Jameson : 9:33 AM
 
If he loves them so much I think he should help out a bit more,lol. typical guy.
posted by Blogger Dena : 10:51 PM
 
Hi Bron -- found your blog :). Congrats your son's birthday. It's a major milestone in South Africa, where I grew up, but its not a biggie here in Canada. You can drive at 16, vote at 18 and drink legally at 19. So all the big stuff has happened by the age of 21.
I'm somewaht relieved about that .... since my eldest turns 21 in August this year.

Enjoy the party!
posted by Blogger Loreth Anne White : 4:09 AM
 
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